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Why is it so Difficult to Maintain Loving Relationships? Are these Difficulties linked to the Intolerance of Otherness and to the Famous “No, No!” of Childhood?

Psychology and Behavioral Science International Journal ISSN 2474-7688 Perspective Volume 1 Issue 4 – November 2016 DOI: 10.19080/PBSIJ.2016.01.555570 Psychol Behav Sci Int J Copyright © All rights are reserved by Ronnie Solan Why is it so Difficult to Maintain Loving

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Did you know that behind the pathological narcissism a healthy narcissism is functioning?

I wish to address myself to you, my professional colleagues, and to share and discuss with you my insightful renewing concepts of the well-known psychological terms, like healthy narcissism, jointness-separateness object relations, the art of couplehood and much more. I

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Crying, smiling, hugging and kissing signal emotional communication

Crying is one of the primary affective/emotional signals in the oral stage, indicating “minor or major differences” in the baby’s emotional/physical state (for example, hunger, pain, distress, panic). Crying is a kind of alarm bell that triggers an immediate emotional

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All of us need to be refueled by love

I send a virtual hug to you who open now my post

Posted in coupelhood, Development, happiness and love, Parenting

Why our childhood leave such an impact on us

The answer is linked to the fascinating processing of the Narcissism as an Emotional Immune System. My book The Enigma of Childhood – The Profound Impact of the first Years of Life on Adults as Couples and Parents, is focuses

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The Healthy Narcissism

Ronnie Solan Ph.D psychoanalyst-clinical psychologyst-psychotherapist, working with children, adults and couples as well as lecturing I found this Audiopedia to my surprise at the YouTube library concerning (inter alia) my re-conceptualization of the Healthy Narcissism. It might interest my friends

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Childhood Development: Piaget and Beyond

*An online course I presented Oct 2016 Piaget’s theory of how our cognitive intelligence develops Freud’s theory of how our emotional life develops Solan’s theory of how our recognition of who are we, of our Self (healthy narcissism) develops presented

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Why Diaper Weaning is Essential in the Solidification of Individuation

* Published in the International Journal of School and Cognitive Psychology (2016)     Abstract This paper explores the importance of diaper weaning, which takes place in a period of life when the toddler is capable of individuation and partnership with his parents.

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The Importance of Diaper Weaning in Consolidating the Personality

As parents, it is natural to want to wean your child from diapers as soon as possible. It seems to represent your child’s level of development. The sooner diaper weaning is complete, the better. But a child’s reality is more

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The Leadership Crisis

From infancy onward we continually accumulate memory traces from all our experiences. We integrate them into a reservoir of perceptions and representations of ourselves and figures important to us (objects). This reservoir represents a sort of narcissistic network which lets

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